The Soho Mean Girls

A collective of some of the most multi-talented, badass Dominas to ever grace NYC.

What THE F*CK IS BDSM?

BDSM 101:

For those new to the scene, BDSM most commonly stands for: BONDAGE / DISCIPLINE / SADISM / MASOCHISM. It is an alternative practice or lifestyle that involves engaging in activities that revolve around a power-dynamic between the two individuals, the Dominant partner, and the submissive partner, abbreviated as D/s. (Other terms used to describe a D/s relationship are: Mistress/slave, Top/bottom, Owner/pet, Alpha/beta, etc.) The Soho Mean Girls are Femdoms. AKA: Female Dominants, which makes anyone wishing to engage in BDSM play with Us, the submissive.

The terms Femdom, Domme, Domina, Dominatrix, or Mistress can all be used interchangeably, and stand for a Dominant Female who wields the power, is in total control of the submissive, and controls all activities in the scene.

Along with Domination and power-play, individuals who engage in BDSM also seek to explore certain fetishes or kinks. A fetish/kink is an unconventional, powerful erotic attraction to something, usually a certain object, or a specific part of the body, such as feet. We as Professional Dommes provide a safe, judgement-free space to explore BDSM, fetishes, and fantasies that you normally wouldn't find or be able to express in the real world. 

Such BDSM scenes vary greatly, and can be, but are not limited to:

Sadomasochistic activities including Whipping/Paddling/Flogging/Caning,  Punishment/Reward, Humiliation Fantasies, Cross-Dressing/Feminization, Spanking, Bondage/Restraints, Obedience Training/Discipline, Pet or Puppy Role-play, Teasing, Human-Furniture, Nipple-Torture, Spitting, Slapping, Goddess worship/Female Supremacy fantasies, Various forms of NON-sexual worship such as foot/leg/boot/shoe worship, Various types of role-play scenarios including Teacher/Student, Doctor/Patient, Lady-Boss/Worker, Sissy-Maid Training, Cuckold Fantasies, Interrogation scenes, etc. Just to name a few...

*** All BDSM scenes are done safely, legally, consensually and professionally in a private environment. There is ALWAYS a safe-word that can be used by the submissive (or the Dominant) to immediately stop all activities in the scene for whatever reason. Communication and honesty with your Domme is KEY for a safe and fulfilling experience!!! By booking an appointment with any of Us, you must be fully understanding of any and all the activities you choose to engage in, and all the risks involved, if any, for your utmost safety and satisfaction. We will NEVER engage in any illegal/sexual activities, or activities considered life-threatening. We also NEVER switch. DO NOT ask. For further questions, refer to our Contact/Booking page. 

For a more extensive lexicon of BDSM, CLICK HERE.